 In this blog post, I am going to focus a little more on the reasons why some people tend to avoid doing the necessary things and take the steps that will bring them closer to achieve a desired goal, and tend to instead do things that usually pull them away from it and its manifestation.All this is happening not on a conscious level but on a subconscious level, it is like a mechanism that is triggered automatically, without the intervention of the conscious mind, and in a way create small self sabotages. This subconscious behavior, is related to some negative experiences from the past and at a very young age, when for some reason, achieving a desire ended up to correspond to a negative experience or fear. Because of the things people were told by their care givers and also because of negative experiences they had. For instance, if the goal was to be more successful at school, and when this person worked really hard on making a small success happen, instead of receive recognition from the teacher, they might have received criticism, so this association was immediately stored in the subconscious mind as negative. Also, if the caregivers were repeatedly saying something like this: If you become powerful or successful, your friends will leave you, or people who like you will become jealous, or something such as: being successful, rich and abundant will bring stress, or reaching success is not something that can be accomplished by normal people like us, but by other people. Also, if in the past people might have been able to reach a goal and be successful in a certain are of their life, while the success lasted, they were experiencing lots of tension and stress or lack of time, they were successful but never had the time to enjoy the success and the abundance they had been working hard to get.
All these factors are responsible for those unconscious responses that are triggered and which sabotage or delay achieving a desired goal! In my next post we will cover the role of hypnosis in improving this erroneous subconscious beliefs and behaviors. If you have questions or comments, I would like for you to post them here, thank you!
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Jack Kahne
1/15/2020 05:33:01 pm
I read the blog, thanks for writing it, so if I understand what you are saying is that beside fear of failure there is another fear, which is hidden deep in the mind and of which I might not even be aware of, and that is the fear of success. Its funny because I never thought of that, but now that it has been revealed, now it kind of rings a bell, we hear a lot about the fear of failure, which is the one responsible for procrastination or self sabotage, but not so much about fear of being successful. I do remember that when I was a little Leave a Reply. |
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